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Three Ways to Handle Criticism.....


One thing that never seems to be in short supply is criticism. People always have an opinion of things you can do better, if you don't believe me....just ask them!

In fact learning how to ask for advice, and what to do with that criticism can be one of the most beneficial, and most difficult things we can do to help us grow, develop, and succeed in Martial Arts and in Life.

Here are three quick strategies to help you figure out what advice to keep, what to sweep, and how to keep it all in perspective.

1) Choose the right voices: When accepting advice, always make sure to consider the source. For example if you want advice on how to be a better martial artist, you should probably ask someone who is good at martial arts. Always seek expert advice, it will save you time, effort, and decrease the amount of time it takes you to improve. One tiny piece of advice from an expert is worth more than a book from a novice.

2) Act on good Advice: When someone who know what they are talking about gives you some good advice the worst thing you can do is......Ignore It! Don't worry if you have, we all have done it at some point or another, and more often than not it is not on purpose. That is why you will here your teachers say some things over and over again, some ideas an concepts take time to soak in, and our understanding of them will deepen and broaden with time. Do it now, understand it later, revisit it after that, and understand it a little better each time we do.

3) "Chew the Meat and Spit Out the Bones" In other words take what is useful and let the rest go. When you get criticism that is anything but constructive, or you get criticism that is just meant to hurt or bring you down.......simply discard it. More often than not the bad things people say about us, have nothing to do about us. In fact the more a person talks about you, the more we tend to learn about them and their perspective on life.

To review: Criticism is a good and necessary part of success, just make sure you find the right voice, you act on it, and you let everything that isn't useful, or is hurtful or harmful roll right of your back!

-Get up, Get Out, and Get Moving!

Joshua Page, Hickory Academy of Martial Arts

www.hickorykarate.com

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